Relational Stress Mapping for High-Stakes Teams.

Workshop Overview

High-performing teams don’t break down because of lack of skill, intelligence, or commitment.

They break down because stress changes how nervous systems communicate.

Relational Stress Mapping for High-Stakes Teams is a live, facilitated workshop designed to help teams identify how stress disrupts communication, decision-making, and trust—and to install a shared repair framework that prevents the same conflicts from repeating.

This is not team bonding. It is not therapy. And it is not personality typing.

It is a precision-based, nervous-system–informed approach to team repair.

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Who This Workshop Is For…

This workshop is designed for:

  • Physician and clinical teams

  • Executive and leadership teams

  • High-accountability organizations under sustained pressure

  • Teams experiencing recurring tension, miscommunication, or emotional fatigue

It is especially effective for teams that are:

  • Highly competent but relationally strained

  • Avoidant of open conflict yet carrying unspoken tension

  • Stuck in repeated communication breakdowns

  • Led by individuals who carry disproportionate emotional load

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What This Workshop Is Not…

To ensure psychological safety and clarity, this workshop is explicitly:

  • Not therapy

  • Not personality testing

  • Not conflict resolution training

  • Not emotional processing or group sharing

Participants are never required to disclose personal history or resolve past events.

The focus is on patterns, not people.

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The DistressRx™ Framework

The Method Behind Relational Stress Mapping

Teams are guided through a shared language that explains:

  • The Method Behind Relational Stress Mapping

    Relational Stress Mapping for High-Stakes Teams is built on DistressRx™, a proprietary framework developed to identify how stress alters cognition, communication, and relational behavior in high-performing individuals and teams.

    DistressRx™ reframes common stress responses—such as control, urgency, withdrawal, reassurance-seeking, impulsivity, and catastrophizing—not as personality flaws, but as predictable nervous system adaptations under pressure.

    This framework provides a shared, non-pathologizing language that allows teams to:

    • Understand why breakdowns occur under stress

    • Identify patterned escalation loops without blame

    • Shift from reactive interpretation to informed response

    • Repair faster by addressing state, not intent

    At the core of DistressRx™ is a simple but powerful premise:

Stress changes how people think, relate, and decide—before it changes what they say or do.

By mapping these stress patterns at the individual and relational level, teams gain clarity without exposure and insight without emotional overload.

From Individual Insight to Team Repair

Within this workshop, DistressRx™ is used to help each participant identify their Stress Signature, including:

  • A dominant stress response pattern

  • Secondary patterns that stabilize or amplify stress

  • How their pattern shifts when regulated vs stressed

These insights are then applied through the Relational Stress Matrix, translating individual awareness into practical, team-level repair strategies.

This is what allows the work to remain:

  • Structured, not emotional

  • Insightful, not invasive

  • Applicable immediately in high-stakes environments

Learn More About DistressRx™

DistressRx™ is the foundational methodology behind this workshop and is used across leadership coaching, clinical education, and organizational consulting.

Learn more about the DistressRx™ framework and assessment tools:

Learn about our distress rx™ tool

The Core Framework

Teams are guided through a shared language that explains:

  • How stress activates predictable nervous system patterns

  • Why good intent collapses under pressure

  • How specific stress patterns interact—and misfire—with each other

  • Why repair fails when pace, pressure, and safety are mismatched

Each participant identifies their Stress Signature, including:

  • Dominant stress response pattern

  • Secondary stabilizing or amplifying pattern

From there, teams learn how patterns interact, not personalities.

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What Participants Will Learn

Goals:

  • Avoidance, escalation, rigidity, over-functioning, reassurance-seeking, and catastrophizing are reframed as intelligent protective responses—not character flaws.

    Participants will learn:

    • How their stress pattern shows up on teams

    • What others experience when that pattern is stressed

    • What helps them regulate faster under pressure

    • How to signal needs without defensiveness

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The Relationship Matrix:

Team Repair in Action

  • The core of the workshop introduces the Relational Stress Matrix, a practical tool that maps how two nervous systems interact across four states:

    1. Stressed × Stressed

    2. Regulated × Regulated

    3. One Stressed × One Regulated

    4. One Regulated × One Stressed

    Rather than blaming individuals, the matrix:

    • Explains escalation loops

    • Normalizes misattunement

    • Identifies precise repair points

    This allows teams to move from “Who’s the problem?” to “What’s the pattern?”

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Guided Teams Repair Process

Example

  • Teams are led through a structured, facilitated repair conversation using a clear framework:

    • “When I’m under stress, my pattern is ___.”

    • “What often gets misunderstood is ___.”

    • “What helps me regulate faster is ___.”

    • “What I’m working on is ___.”

    No rebuttals. No correcting. No problem-solving.

    This creates immediate safety while restoring clarity and mutual respect.

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Outcomes Teams Can Expect

Results:

  • After the workshop, teams consistently report:

    • Reduced emotional reactivity

    • Faster repair after conflict

    • Clearer communication under pressure

    • Less interpersonal exhaustion

    • Improved trust without oversharing

    Leaders experience:

    • Reduced emotional labor

    • Stronger containment without micromanagement

    • Increased psychological safety with maintained authority

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Team Repair

The Science of Team Repair

The goal of our workshop is faster repair with less damage.

When teams understand how stress shapes interaction, accountability becomes humane, leadership becomes stabilizing, and trust becomes sustainable.

Relational Stress Mapping gives teams the language—and the pathway—to repair without blame and move forward with clarity.

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Formats

Options

90-Minute Intensive

High-Impact Reset for Intact Teams

Best for teams who:

  • Are fundamentally healthy and high-functioning

  • Trust each other but feel pressure building

  • Want a shared language before stress causes rupture

  • Need a reset, not repair

  • Are short on time but high on accountability

Common scenarios:

  • Leadership teams entering a high-stakes season

  • Clinical teams under increased volume or acuity

  • Newly formed teams wanting a preventative framework

  • Post-crisis stabilization (before patterns calcify)

What this delivers:

  • Rapid normalization of stress patterns

  • Shared language for misattunement

  • Immediate reduction in reactivity

  • A clear, lightweight repair framework

This format works because:
It creates alignment without excavation. No one is singled out. No one is exposed. Teams leave clearer, calmer, and better equipped to regulate under pressure.

2-Hour Core Workshop

The Recommended Standard Format

Best for teams who:

  • Are functioning but feeling relationally stretched

  • Experience recurring tension or miscommunication

  • Want understanding and practical repair tools

  • Are open to reflection without emotional processing

  • Need something sustainable, not superficial

Common scenarios:

  • Physician or executive teams with friction but goodwill

  • Teams noticing emotional fatigue or silos

  • Groups struggling with pace, urgency, or trust

  • Leaders carrying disproportionate emotional load

What this delivers:

  • Individual stress signature mapping

  • Introduction of the Relational Stress Matrix

  • Guided team repair language

  • Clear repair scripts teams can reuse

This format works because:
It balances insight with action. Teams gain self-awareness and a repeatable way to repair without oversharing or blame.

Half-Day Deep Dive (3–4 Hours)

Targeted Repair for Chronic Relational Strain

Best for teams who:

  • Have unresolved tension that keeps resurfacing

  • Feel “stuck” in the same communication loops

  • Are productive but emotionally taxed

  • Avoid conflict—or escalate quickly when it appears

  • Need containment, not confrontation

Common scenarios:

  • Departments with historical fractures

  • Leadership teams after turnover or restructuring

  • Clinical teams experiencing burnout-related conflict

  • Teams where trust has thinned but not collapsed

What this delivers:

  • Full stress signature integration

  • Multiple relational matrix walkthroughs

  • Facilitated repair conversations in contained groups

  • Explicit repair norms and boundaries

This format works because:
It slows the system enough for real recalibration without overwhelming participants. Patterns can be named, understood, and softened safely.

Full-Day Deep Dive

System-Level Reset for High-Impact Teams

Best for teams who:

  • Have significant relational fatigue or mistrust

  • Are functioning operationally but strained interpersonally

  • Have experienced repeated ruptures or leadership stress

  • Need time for integration, not just insight

  • Require visible investment in team health

Common scenarios:

  • Executive or physician leadership teams in crisis recovery

  • Organizations post-merger, litigation, or reputational stress

  • Teams where communication breakdowns affect outcomes

  • Groups where emotional labor is unevenly distributed

What this delivers:

  • Deep nervous system education and normalization

  • Extensive relational mapping across subgroups

  • Structured repair conversations with facilitation

  • Clear leadership containment strategies

This format works because:
It creates psychological safety through structure. Teams don’t rush repair — they stabilize it.

2-Day Deep Dive

Relational Reconstruction for Teams Under Chronic Stress

Best for teams who:

  • Have entrenched conflict or prolonged strain

  • Are at risk of attrition, disengagement, or fracture

  • Have lost trust in informal repair attempts

  • Need cultural reset, not skill-building

  • Require leadership alignment and shared ownership

Common scenarios:

  • High-stakes clinical units with sustained burnout

  • Leadership teams following major rupture or failure

  • Organizations seeking long-term relational change

  • Teams where “nothing else has worked”

What this delivers:

  • Full relational stress mapping across the system

  • Multiple facilitated repair cycles

  • Leadership role clarification and containment work

  • Long-term repair agreements and follow-up structure

This format works because:
It allows the nervous system to fully settle, reorganize, and re-trust. This is not about fixing people — it’s about rebuilding the conditions for safety and collaboration.

The right format isn’t about how much time you spend — it’s about how much strain the system is carrying. These options allow teams to choose the level of support that matches their reality.

Available live or virtual.

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